Charles Oputa, the Nigerian entertainer and activist known as Charly Boy, is urging men to embrace openness about their health, drawing from his personal experience with prostate cancer.
Speaking in an exclusive interview with Saturday Beats, Charly Boy stressed that transparency in addressing health concerns, particularly mental health and prostate issues, is crucial for the well-being of men.
Having survived prostate cancer, Charly Boy shared how his willingness to talk about his diagnosis and treatment played a pivotal role in his recovery.
“I survived prostate cancer, and it is only because of my openness. I am also trying to encourage Nigerian men to be more open about the challenges they face, especially concerning mental health and prostate issues. These problems are killing a lot of men,” he stated.
Charly Boy’s advocacy extends through his Charly Boy Foundation, where he aims to dismantle the societal stigma around men expressing vulnerability.
He passionately expressed, “We’ve been brainwashed to think that men don’t cry, but I cry if something touches my soul. I don’t care whether I’m in front of a million women, or if you think my crying makes me weak. I know I’m not weak, so I will cry. If something bothers me, I must get it out.”
The activist emphasized that communication, particularly with trusted friends and family, is vital in reducing the burden of secrecy.
Reflecting on his motivation behind the foundation, he said, “My experience with prostate cancer inspired me to set it up. I would have been a goner if I had acted like others I know. That’s why I’m committed to raising awareness, showing men that openness is better than pretending to be strong.”
Charly Boy also shared key lessons from his own treatment journey, stressing the importance of early detection.
He received his medical care in Nigeria from a dedicated doctor at Reddington Hospital, underlining the significance of local healthcare providers in the fight against prostate cancer.
By sharing his personal story and advocating for change, Charly Boy hopes to inspire Nigerian men to prioritize their health, challenge toxic masculinity, and engage in open discussions about their well-being.
