A Nigerian man has gone viral on social media after revealing that he uncovered his fiancée’s secret dating life and hook-up activities by checking her WhatsApp messages.
The shocking revelation, shared anonymously on X (formerly Twitter), has sparked widespread discussion about trust, relationships, and privacy in modern dating.
In the post, the man recounted how he discovered his fiancée was dating multiple men and engaging in explicit behavior, including sending nude photos and videos.
He wrote, “I checked my fiancée’s phone last night, and what I saw shattered my heart. My fiancée was dating multiple men and even doing hook-ups, sending nude pics and videos. I’m bleeding right now, but it’s well.”
Adding to his feelings of betrayal, the man expressed gratitude for the discovery, stating, “I thank God for the revelation, if not, man for just marry olosho.”
The term “olosho,” which refers to women involved in transactional relationships, highlighted his frustration with the situation.
The post has ignited a flood of reactions, with many users sharing their thoughts on relationship boundaries and trust.
Some Twitter users reflected on their own experiences, suggesting that they might have unknowingly been in similar situations. One user, @rukky_nate, wrote, “Some of us may have unknowingly dated women who were into runs, we just weren’t aware enough to figure it out.”
Others expressed support for the man, urging him to move on. @aliuolaitan07 commented, “You should be happy my dear brother, God has saved you. You really need thanks giving as Àgbà Said.”
The conversation also turned to the importance of privacy in relationships, with some users advising partners to respect boundaries. @I__E__O noted, “If your girl refuses you to check her phone, leave her and go your way.”
This unexpected revelation has sparked a broader debate about trust, loyalty, and transparency in relationships, with many questioning how much privacy is acceptable between partners.